The tricks that made grown crafters emotional


Tips and tricks knitters and crocheters wish they'd known sooner

Hi friend,

Confession before we start: I only recently figured out what Reddit is — and I'm now completely, hopelessly addicted. 🙈 Which is exactly how this whole thing started.

I did a little experiment. I asked the crocheters of the internet, and then the knitters, the same tiny question: what's the trick you wish someone had told you when you started?

Both sides delivered. The crochet post alone got 119,000 views and a comment section that turned into group therapy. People were emotional. And honestly? I wish I'd had both of these lists taped to my project bag fifteen years ago.

So I rounded up the best of each. Grab whatever you're working on right now.

🧶 If you crochet…

The number one answer literally made people cry happy tears (foundation rows, if you know you know). There's the stitch marker that finally can't ping across the room and live under your couch forever, a person who counts stitches with a leftover tally counter from their lab job, and the magic knot — glorious, but it WILL betray you at the worst possible moment.

The crochet tricks, rounded up →

🪡 If you knit…

Consider this your official permission slip to frog it. That "but I already put 40 hours in" feeling is lying to you. Also inside: the upper-bust measurement standing between you and accidentally knitting a beautiful tent (ask me how I know), why you should gently put the straight needles down, and lifelines — the safety net that means one oops doesn't cost you a week of work.

The knitting tricks, rounded up →

The one thing both camps agreed on: your very first project is allowed to be a lumpy little practice thing you never wear. That's how all of us started.

Now I have to know: what's the trick you learned the hard way? Hit reply and tell me — I collect these like I collect half-finished projects (so, enthusiastically).

Happy making,
Ash

P.S. Yes, I noticed the knitters and crocheters got a little competitive about whose tips were better. I'm staying out of it. Mostly.

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